As far as I am concerned that arranged merriage has a lot of chances to be divorced by any of parties If they are merried with each other. In arrange marriage the both don't have that strong bond and they neither know each other. It's not that in arranged marriages there is no love and understanding at all but what I think is once we get married we don't have any other option to do if we come to know that the person is not right for us. They should be involved more so than anyone but i guess my point is both parties are supposed to love via logic not emotion. But independence covets highest degree of responsibility also. We marry with whom who are completely unknown. And then u can refresh your spouse naturally.
Its like hidden treasure and more you explore about your partner strengthen the love, understanding, feeling and relationship. But life is not a theory to be stated theoretically, rather it has a lot to do in practice. Conclusion Both — the love and the arranged marriages — have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of lifetime. Even in an arranged marriage there is a different sort of social pressure. The modern Indian society is in a state of transition. Nowadays, young people of the modern generation do not find the so attractive. With a fast lifestyle, dating has become really easy for the youngsters and so is the prospect of evaluating a date as a potential life partner.
A proper framework set by the parents allows these potential mates to meet a few times, or talk over the phone and decide themselves whether they are compatible or not. Vallu meku chadivinchaka pote meru ye amminaina lov cheyagaligera tru hart tho chepandi e rojullo yevallaina money untene. This will all lead to a more peaceful married life, since you will be aware that everything is in the hands of you and your partner, and you are free to take decisions independently. I think I need an arranged marriage - as long as he's good looking with a bit of cash to help give me the lifestyle I want!! Therefore, it becomes almost impossible for them to search a groom on their own. Love marriage or arranged marriage- my answer refers to Sri Lankan Culture: If the question was posed to an adult in late 50's he would probably say that arranged marriage is the best. But if you ask anyone about their own choice in love marriage vs. Secondly, parents are children's best wishes.
The thing is not of the communities or families or type of marriage. Cause that girl chose the guy based on lust and not logic, we have this pressure from society in that you have to fall in love the ideal partner. My personal belief, supported by scientific facts from psychology, is that a marriage must be arranged by two individuals, where they mutually come to a decision regarding the order of their life together; that it be based on love, trust, affection, respect and commitment. Top Ten Facts about Love and Arranged Marriage 1. In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know all about our partner's likes dislikes and behaviour. After marriage, running a family is an important thing, if you have money then the love was much stronger but arranged marriage you have or haven't much stronger.
Lots of women live with this trauma all their lifes and behave in front of their families like everything is normal, as they think that this is the meaning of Marriage! In arranged marriages, men are always more dominant than women. Both styles of marriage have advantages and limitations. Thanks for the book recommendation! This is the present day reality. We are forced to marry. In arrange marriage we take some time to understand the feelings of each other. People of different ages and traditions would answer this question differently. And life is much more sorted in arrange marriage than a love marriage.
I respect what all of your point of view but what my point of view is, that I prefer love marriage because in love marriage people understand each other so much what they want or not etc but it doesn't mean I criticize arrange marriage or I am against of arrange marriage because all people have their own choice and own opinions so I think no one can take bad decisions for themselves. Marriage is a sacred bond which unites two individuals and two families. All I think is one has to believe on the after life of love marriage and have to be practical on that. Dear friends according to my point of view, both marriages are having their different point of views related to criteria. So it is really best and safe to marry a person which ones parents choose for their child. Rate this: +17 -3 Sanju Ghasal said: Jan 21, 2019 Marriage is a life long commitment of two partners and also a close bonding of two families.
They define spaces, and they respect each other. Most of the love marriages are divorced in today's world. It believes it will give the very same pleasure that a good love affair can give and it's so comforting to have a relationship after marriage with the partner. Before they move on to love. Allow me to elaborate: 1 get to spend life with someone who cares just as much about you, as you do about them 2 have a dependable partner and friend no matter where you are 3 can enjoy life together without having to compensate for some … one who does not share your interests 4 If you have children, they will grow up knowing how to love because there is a house full of it 5 who wants to marry someone you can't stand, anyway! You can also save a lot of time involved in adjusting to your partner. In a love marriage, you kick-off by planning for bigger and important things in your marriage, which individuals in arranged marriage are able to do only after couple of years spent understanding each other. Trust and respect is the key words for both the concepts.
In Arranged marriages mostly both are don't know their behaviour etc. In love marriage, your family take the back seat and they interrupt between you and your partner only when you ask them to help you out. Now, I want to some point of views of my friends. This is one of the main reasons that later lead to unjustified and unreasonable demands put up by both the sides. Instead of working at home, wives are highly educated and have their own jobs outside the home; although for many young people arranged marriage is still not a question, I seem to hear more and more young people who fall in love and decide to go for that; there might even be more blending between people from different religious or social or, caste backgrounds. Rate this: +39 -19 Tripti said: Jun 12, 2018 In love marriage, you have that assurance before marriage itself that life partner will understand and support one doesn't need to adjust compromise much. Course it is as divorce is frowned upon in these cultures, and families intervene.