Growing materialism is responsible for the custom of dowry becoming moil widespread. The parents have to arrange for dowries so that their daughters may get respect from their in laws. This accounts for an explosive situation such as bride burning and many other atrocities activity against women in our society. Preparations will be made to meet bride and groom along with their families if everything meets with an agreement. These who cannot do this must suffer their daughter to remain unmarried. It is, as today, a curse to the society.
Trivnd Smriti Singh December 2014. Further some girls, who remain unmarried due to dowry system, take decision to carry on illegal sexual relations in order to satisfy their sexual urge and there by pollute the whole society. In 2005, the was passed, which added an additional layer of protection from dowry harassment. Dowry is the price for these two attributes. Later the attitude changed and people were overcomeby greed.
Dowry helps newly married couple to establish their family: The advocates of the practice of dowry say that the dowry, money, utensils and other house hold articles that a bride brings at the time of marriage help the newly married couple to establish their new home and also enables them to furnish their home with necessary accessories. In the pre-Colonial period, dowry was an institution managed by women, for women, to enable them to establish their status, maintain their independence and have recourse in an emergency. Thus from a grace it became a shame of our society. However, the evil of dowry lies in the greed and exploitation of women. It is also considered a status symbol, especially in the high class, and generally the items of dowry are.
There even seems the mediator for making the bargaining in the amount for arranging the marriage. Then they are caught between the devil and the deep sea. The dowry hunters are responsible for the deaths and burning of many bridges. Parents of a boy boast that their son fetched a very high amount of dowry, including a car, a plot of land or a flat, a video and all other luxury and household goods. There are also several state level amendments to the Dowry Prohibition Act.
The victims of dowry should be provided legal and social protection. There is the provision of punishing to those who practice the dowry but it has been said and written in law only not on the real ground. An overwhelming majority among young girls, are brought up to believe that their final destination is marriage. However it is not easy task. Trafficking in India is rising, and sometimes this, too, is driven by the value of dowry. Punishable law: The law of Nepal is flexible because of not is practice strictly as we know that government has mad the rule against dowry system but not working strictly in this sectors.
There is, however, a clear difference between the bride-givers and the bride-takers because of the rules of marriage practised in most parts of India. Dowry has also become a symbol of prestige for both the dowry-givers and the dowry-takers. Newspapers are full of reports carrying harrowing tales of brides being burnt to death or driven to hang themselves because of constant nagging by their in laws. There are ways, tips, methods, and steps of removing and eradicating dowry system in our society. Girls and boys should get the equal school to study together and discuss this issue.
The reasons, causes, and solutions have also their role in its eradication and elimination. States in the north are more likely to participate in the dowry system among all classes, and dowry is more likely to be in the form of material and movable goods. Dowry is given at the time of marriage of a daughter by the father. Every citizen in this modern culture criticizes this system and yet it still expands at a very large scale which indicates how deeply this dowry system is rooted in the society. The system of dowry has become part and parcel of our collective conscience and has been accepted by the society as a whole. Dowry is usually a promise to give the money and wealth to the guy and his parents. Why is Dowry System Still Intact? Dowry in the Act is defined as any property or valuable security given or agreed to be given in connection with the marriage.
Dowry does not refer to the voluntary presents which are made to the bride and the groom; rather it is what is extracted from the bride or her parents. They must be inspired to take initiative towards its actual abolition by rejecting dowry for the marriage. The reality is that most cases of dowry violence go unreported. Thus dowry practices forces some parents to be corrupt. The visible outcome of such efforts which to date are limited to candid media, generous discourse and ceremonial gestures has yet to come. They are in no way inferior to the boys.
However often this is not the case. These include economic factors and social factors. Today, the fact is that parents want to give their daughter to a family of high repute and to a highly educated boy with a lucrative job or who is likely to get a good job. A passionate writer, writing content for many years and regularly writing for Indiacelebrating. This is the secret crime which is prevailing under the eyes of government and law. In the process some innocent girls are carried away by the false promises of the young boys and are often sexually cheated to be made pregnant. Marriage gives them their own family and incentive to fulfil their ambitions in their career.