It is important that members in a joint family system feel accepted for who they are and as they are. People have to contribute and share money to fulfill their needs. We the individuals are making joint family system the worst system otherwise this system can be the best in future. He has a say in all the matters. However, joint family has the following dysfunctions and demerits.
Hence this form of family is still found in India. Where she doesn't do hijab. Coping with all problems - big and small on our own as we are unable to afford the privilege of sharing and downloading worries on someone other than spouse whom we feel close and connected to. Both these types refer to the compositional aspect of the patrilineal joint family. He tries to reason with the family, urging them not to spend so much on unnecessary rituals, and he too understands our personal limitations.
Members with such aspirations can feel constricted. I have to send an e-greeting to my third brother's second son. Children who have grown up within these kinships are now parents. Several nuclear families live together as one and constitute a joint family. It makes cost of labor high. The Hindu Succession Act, 1956 enabled the women to claim a share of their father's property.
Here, sermons are not needed rather they won't work. Members are publicly known more by family name than individual identity. In today's world, there are two predominant classifications of families, one, a nuclear family and joint family. The joint families suffered set back. Family first socializes the child.
Lastly, I'm against your claim to calling joint family system as indecent or inappropriate as it has never been mentioned in any verse of Qur'an or in Shariah or in hadith or have never been prohibited. Parents should become good friends with their children not just take care of them. If our current family model is reflective of a lifestyle that is based on selfish existence and intolerance to others views then how can we expect the society of which such a family is a unit to be any different. The super-ordination of the eldest member and the subordination of all the other members to him is a keynote of the joint family. We can easily financially help them out living in separate houses as in the case of Abu Talib wee see the great example of silatu 'r-rahm. The joint family system constituted the basic social institution in many traditional societies, particularly in the Eastern societies. They successfully transmit ideologies, customs, traditions, beliefs and values from generation to generation.
It takes a lot to adjust and accommodate within the family. This has enabled them to change their traditional ancestral occupation and choose occupations according to their caliber and competence. Hence, it is associated with various religious rituals and practices. Secondly its darkest aspect is its unconstructive impact on your daughter. Aboriginal families have strict social rules regarding whom they can marry. Non-judgmental listening and demonstrating mutual trust are necessary to help family members open up to one another. I intended to bring it directly from the house, but my cousin -in-law? A togetherness can be displayed in a joint family system because everyone helps each other and strives to reach the same goal.
Their children still live together and continue the family enterprise which today is a local landmark. The concept of nuclear family started becoming quite common, post the industrial revolution. If God forbidden despite all this the problem is not solved then be patient and wait until Almighty Allah solves it. My paternal grandfather had died young. When children are supposed to be with their parents, at that crucial juncture, our own children abandon us because we as children have done the same with our parents in the name of nuclear families. Joint families on the other hand have been an important faction of the society since the genesis of mankind. Here are some things that can be done differently from the old system to make the 'joint family system' a success — 1.
Common Kitchen: Living together is not the only ingredient of joint family. It may be located even at distant places and may not even have property in common. All the members celebrate religious rites, duties and festivals jointly. The every single bit of your relationship is out in the open before your family. Stories that formed the basis of our cultural identity.